In these early days of our D/s life, I am lucky I don’t have a lot of work on my plate, and after Michael goes to work I can just float in this new perspective on “us,” try to grapple with his change in our relationship, this change in myself. The feeling of coming home…
Everybody Loves Raymond Since discovering my sexual submissive self over two years ago, it is almost impossible not to see relationships through that lens as they play out in popular culture or in the news. For example, I recently saw a rerun of Everybody Loves Raymond, in which poor Raymond is desperate to get laid…
Early Indications We are a week into our D/s exploration, and now that I am believing this is going to be the way for us, that this is really who we are… I spend a lot of time in my living room chair, gazing at the winter-bare oak trees out my front window, trying to…
Electric Energy The morning after my “I am sexual submissive” revelation, I wake with new identity and a new body. It doesn’t feel like the normal body I am accustomed to inhabiting, a body often numb and easy to ignore as I go about my day. It has now been jolted awake by an influx…
On the Verge Get down on your knees, he says when I walk in the door, and I laugh. I laugh because this is the first time my husband has given me a sexual command, and it feels strange and unfamiliar to be told what to do. I laugh because it also feels like roleplay,…
The Ecstacy of Surrender One of the most iconic love scenes in movie history is in Gone With the Wind, when Rhett Butler overcomes the resistance of Scarlett O’Hara, scoops her up into his arms and carries her up to bed… to presumably force her to submit to his sexual lust. Cut to the next…
Aching, Throbbing, Wanting In the days following our “Got caught watching porn by Daddy” role-play, my once barely-noticed fantasy – lurking at the bottom of my awareness – rises from the deep and overtakes the surface. My mind becomes possessed by the image of myself draped face down across Michael’s lap, panties pulled down around…
Before my sweet husband and I discovered the joys of Dominance and Submission, we took a quick detour through Tantric sex. Although perhaps detour is not the right word; Tantric experimentation might have been the actual road to D/s for us. You see, it was love at first touch for Michael and me. We met…
I consider myself a feminist, proudly so, passionately so. I am liberal, far into mid-life, I believe in equal rights, equal pay, equal opportunity. I have my own career, I earn my own money, keep it in my own bank account, and I certainly make my own life decisions. I have written dramatic defenses (literally…
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